You are about to learn The 10 The Distinctions Between Super Desirable Guys and Average Guys™
This is of course based on my viewpoint.
And my viewpoint was formed by:
- Talking to hundreds and hundreds of guys about what they are doing wrong (i.e. being UN-desirable)
- Talking to hundreds and hundreds of guys about what they are doing right (i.e. being desirable)
- Talking to hundreds and hundreds of guys who made RAPID transformations (i.e. going from UN-desirable to SUPER desirable.)
- Talking to hundreds and hundreds of guys who made ZERO transformations (i.e. staying UN-desirable even though they've tried many different things.)
- and an interesting experience that we'll get to in a few seconds...
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Why Did I Create This Report?
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I created this report because I recently heard someone say 2010 is the year he'll be
10 times better than he was in '09...
I thought WOW!
I like that!
It made me want to become 10 times more helpful.
And then I started thinking about what could make current customers get better results. How could I help a higher percentage of customers.
That's when I realized that a KEY MODULE was missing from Super Seduction Power. And many of the reports that I created...
You see, the feedback has been pretty good so far [click here to read a few of the emails].
However, I keep getting emails from people who STILL can't achieve any type of success.
Not even a small level of improvement.
According to them, they keep trying and nothing works.
My initial reaction is they're not doing things the same way.
That's obvious.
That's when I started to dig deeper.
I then I kept digging deeper and deeper.
That's when I realized something!!
I realized
that the guys who were able to make lasting changes (because that SHOULD BE the goal) did things totally different...
It was beyond what I had taught.
Without learning it from me, they basically took the same exact approach that I always take in life... and I foolishly assumed that everyone approaches things this way...
Very silly of me!
Because thinking back, I've been fortunate enough to have 'unique life experiences' that allowed me to learn key life lessons (that I apply to everything).
If someone hasn't had those lessons, then it would be difficult to 'use the power' of those lessons to approach things in a new way.... a way that allows you to achieve results FASTER... in any area of life...
So I created this report to 'put it all on the table' and to 'completely expose' why some guys go from Average to Super Desirable (with women) in an impressive amount of time.
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Why Does My Perspective Matter?
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If you've read and enjoyed any of my reports, then you can skip this section.
If not, then let me tell you something that I've never shared before.
And let me magnify (go into detail) about a particular life experience. I grew up in a low middle class neighborhood. And for whatever reason...all throughout my life...I've always had 2 sets of friends. Cool friends (by society's definition) and Geeky Friends.
I think naturally, I'm a geek/nerd.
There's no doubt about. Comic books. Baseball cards. Math club. Computer Club (in the 80's ...remember the
Commodore
64? By the way, my BIGGEST dream was to own a f&%$
Commodore
64!!! Never happened though... ... yeah, I know....'Aaawwwww. poor baby'. LOL)
Anyway!!!
For some reason, I've always a set of Cool Friends,too.
My guess is that me and my cousin were very close since we were babies (we're like 3 weeks apart in age).
And we lived a couple of doors down from each other. He's naturally cool. Cool friends. Didn't associate with geeks/nerds. Drinking in high school. Super Popular in high school. Star Football Player. Bad Grades. He had the whole package.
So I think some of his coolness rubbed off on me, because when we went to separate schools, I ended up having the same two types of friends.
Anyway I lived in both worlds.
(And let's explain why this matters. In fact, anyone who has had this duel-world experience has probably made the same interesting observation that I made...
Did you have a bizarre experience like this, too?
If you did, you probably realized that some people just are naturally good with women. (i.e. the cool kids)
Let me explain..
Let's go way back to elementary school...
You see, when I hung around my geeky friends the topic of girls NEVER came up...
When I hung around my cool friends, we talked about different things...
I would say right around the age of 7, my cool friends were already checking out girls. And getting phone numbers. For me, it was MASSIVE PRESSURE, because I was secretly
terrified. In fact, even if they told me that a girl liked me, I was still scared to talk to her (on that level)...
Looking back, my cool friends naturally (starting at a very young age) displayed a DIFFERENT MINDSET that gave them a massive advantage...
Me?
I was
terrified to DEATH for obvious reasons
I still remember having this DEADLY FEAR that I would never have a girlfriend.
I remember seeing them walk up to girls...introduce themselves...start talking...and then get their numbers. I was always the 'odd man out'...
It was a weird pattern. Because whenever I moved and had to change schools, I would end up having 2 sets of friends (different people)... who had two different mindsets and believes about women...
And I saw the same things.
Cool friends were naturals with girls. In other words, they never had to actively learn how to have the right mindset.
They looked forward to 'hunting them down' at malls.
Geeky friends never mentioned girls. Geeky friends talked about telescopes and a cool looking rock he just found. Geeky friends never bragged about some hot chic he just banged last night.
Well, after being in an environment (for years and years!) where all of your friends are telling you stories about banging girls (while I'm thinking 'Hey. I want to bang girls, too!) and then having a DEADLY FEAR of being alone because you just don't see yourself actually walking up to a girl, I just snapped...
I Just F$%&ing Snapped!
I made the decision that this was going to end!
I just did it.
No plan. Nothing.
I looked at how my Cool Friends approached girls.
Also:
They were getting rejected like crazy! And they were laughing about it. They were teasing each other. It wasn't a big deal. It wasn't like the end of the world.
I think in the beginning, I was so nervous, awkward, un-smooth and direct...that some girls interpreted this as confidence. My perspective changed.
If you want to change your results,
you have to change your perspective.
If you want to change your results, you have to change your perspective.
If you want to change your results, you have to change your perspective.
Then years later, I learned to increase my sexual value in my relationship (getting more sex in my relationship).
You see I had already learned as a kid that you can change your perspective and get better results with girls.
All throughout my life, I've had many cool friends brag to me about their success and NOT ONCE did I ever think to 'actively figure out' what they were doing and saying...
Or more importantly....
Try to figure out
their thinking/belief/philosophy that makes it so THEY could approach a girl, get rejected and not make a big deal out of it...
So this marked the first time in my life, I made a PHILOSOPHICAL CHANGE (not a change in game plan)...
In other words, the game plan was still the same! (Hello. Blah Blah Blah. Can I have your number?)
The only difference was I made the decision to NOT CARE either way...
Once I starting doing this, I got better results (I'm talking INSTANTLY)
It was almost as if I was 'saying cooler things to girls'...
But all I did was project a better mindset...
How crazy is that?
Life wouldn't be as fun, if you KNEW the outcome of a situation.
So it's like Christmas... you might not get the gift you want (i.e. the
Commodore
64), but you still end up enjoying Christmas... because there's a chance you'll get it...or you end up getting other cool toys...
In the case with approaching girls, worse case scenario, you get teased. Or worse case scenario, no one finds out...and you don't get teased... or 'who cares'...
I think the KEY to life is being able to craft creative 'worse case scenarios'.
You see if you get rejected by a girl, then you don't experience any physical pain. It's not like being stabbed under the fingernails for 15 minutes.
Here's my point, I initially experienced my first success with women (when I was younger) NOT because I read a bunch of stuff on the internet. The internet wasn't well-known when I was in high school.
But it came from me 'changing my perspective' and 'doing'...
Desirable Guys Do Things Differently
You see when something is painful, it's harder to keep doing it. Right?
Since there's no physical pain involved with getting success with women, the only PAIN (that stops guys from getting better) is what they create for themselves...
If you can Philosophically removed the pain, you're FORCED to be in the Doing Phase.
In fact you would be in a HYPER Doing Phase.
It's like pressing a red button and possibly getting $10,000.
You could keep pressing the red magic button.
Who cares if it only gives you $10,000 every 10th time you press the button.
Who cares if it only gives you $10,000 every 15th time you press the button.
There's nothing bad that will happenduring the times when it doesn't give you the money.
So you get pressing the red button like crazy...
You're FORCED to be in the DOING Phase...
Once you're in the Doing Phase (where you don't care what the result is) you can
then move to the 'Making Adjustments' Phase...
Paying attention to other people's successes.
Learning from others.
Learning about women.
Trying new stuff and seeing what happens. etc...
By the way, this is not a book about approaching women.
I told this whole story just to illustrate my personal experience with 'making adjustments' in my thinking and how it directly affected me in a certain way.
And later on in my life (as in now), I have helped hundreds of guys make changes. And I don't just study and 'dive deep into the minds' of those who ended up making rapid changes, I pay close attention to those who struggle with getting results.
This report can be thought of as a 4 year case study
unlike anything you've ever seen.
That brings me to the first Distinction. As a matter of fact, I'll share it with you now....
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Distinction #1
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Super Desirable Guys are Action-Oriented-Adjusters.
Average Guys are quick to give up.
One thing that makes Super Desirable Guys 100 times better (more effective) than Average Guys is they make adjustments.
- It's not JUST about the technique
- It's not JUST about the strategy
- It's not JUST about the step-by-step action plan
It's all about the person (his thinking) COMBINED with the technique...
This is the hidden secret that you're not being told...
When I see people who improve FASTER than others, I pay attention to the thinking behind the actual step-by-step actions.
For example, if I gave a 'new technique' to a Super Desirable Guy designed to get women aroused,
he would be excited about trying it out...
He wouldn't hesitate. He would read it fully - maybe even 2-3 times to make sure you got it. (Average guys hate reading...it's painful to them...they skim)
Then he would try it out.
He might 'make slight adjustments' to the technique based on 'characteristics' that are unique to HIM, THE WOMAN, THEIR TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP, ETC...
So even out of the gate (the first time around), he would perform it '10 times better' than the average guy...
But he wouldn't stop there...
The next time around he would try it again making slight variations based on KEY THINGS...
Just to see if it would improve her reaction...
How's that for a distinction. That's just one!!
Click Here To Read All 10 Distinctions
This is a must-read.
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Who Is This Book For?
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It is not for:
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guys who think desirability can't be increased. |
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guys who don't realize tthe important of 'mindset' |
It is for:
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Guys who understands the importance of being Super Desirable. |
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It's for guy who realize that we are humans. We are designed to adapt and improve. |
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It's for the guy who wants to use these 10 Distinctions as a Quiz: |
You can use these 10 items to Figure Out Your Desirability Score. That way, you'll know where to focus more of your energy.
